by Danielle LaPorte
[ 3 Jul 2009 | One Comment | ]
The “I Do Not Know” Conspiracy

Tough spot, painful circumstance, official dilemma. A total jam.
“I just don’t know what to do.”
Hmmm. Then what? If you just don’t know what to do, then what are you going to do? Probably nothing. If you declare you don’t know, then you won’t…know. You’ll just sway back ‘n forth in the lull of your status quo unknowingness. No need to change because you just don’t want to know. Knowing would change things. Knowing would require you to change things.
If you said to your commanding officer, “I just don’t know what …

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[ 6 Jul 2009 | No Comment | ]
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[ 26 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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[ 26 Jun 2009 | One Comment | ]
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[ 24 Jun 2009 | One Comment | ]
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[ 23 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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[ 21 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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by Abhijit Bhaduri
[ 18 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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[ 17 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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by PK
[ 17 Jun 2009 | No Comment | ]
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[ 17 Jun 2009 | One Comment | ]
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by Guest Tickler
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[ 15 Jun 2009 | One Comment | ]
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