The Living Legacy
I could see my father’s image pop out of the scroll as the lawyer was reading my father’s will, “Last will and testament of me, Prakash Arora,”…. …and after that everything went blah, blah-blah, blah-blah. The interesting part came when I heard “ To my darling daughter Ritu, I leave, a boat.” I always dreamt of cruising the world in a small luxury boat, maybe it would even have a casino, I thought. There was the Sea Princess of your dreams and now I was going to get it ……but the next words the lawyer said ensured that my Sea Princess sank ,“Ah yes, Miss Arora”, she said, “here’s your boat.” A paper boat!
My mind reeled back to a five year old Ritu, who had rushed indoors at pitter-patter, the first drops of rain on the window-sill. My father had looked at me and said, “come Sweety, let me teach you how to make a paper boat”, and with his deft fingers he had carefully and cleverly folded the paper to form a boat, hypnotic and beautiful, and father and daughter had stepped out in the rain, and set the boat adrift in the rushing muddy water, and watched it toss from door to door. What my father was doing then, was creating a legacy. One that would help me enjoy the monsoon, the rain water and paper boats forever.
Kabir has rightly said, ‘Kadli seep bhujang much, swati ek gun teen’. The first drop of rain, that falls into a Banana tree forms camphor, into an oyster forms a pearl, and into a serpent’s mouth forms venom. Each one of us is as unique and precious as the first drop of rain. The legacy we leave behind, camphor, pearl or venom is our choice.
Margaret Thatcher got the legacy of ‘commitment to service’, from her father, a shopkeeper. A dyslexic child grew up to become General George Patton because his father left him ‘courage to conquer’.
We can all become immortal by leaving living legacies, not only for our children, but for every life we touch. A famous Chinese proverb says, ‘the faintest ink is more lasting than the strongest memory’. ‘Letters from a father to a daughter’ made Pandit Nehru immortal not only for Indira Gandhi, but also for the world at large. Dr.Ralph C. Smedley’s living legacy is a not-for-profit organization called Toastmasters International.
Everything including life is temporary. It melts away like ice. Leave living legacies that will last beyond the mists of time. Create timeless treasures.
I am reminded of the famous ghazal of Jagjit Singh, ‘Woh kagaz ki kashti Woh baarish ka paani’ Take my wealth, fame and youth, but return to me my childhood monsoon, the rain water and my paper boat.
My paper boat sails on. A living legacy that reminds me of the time that I spent with my father that has made me the person I am today. I can see my father no more, but he is still with me, as a living presence.
How would you like to be remembered, what will your paper boat be?
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What a lovely and touching story. It is a good reminder to us all to remember what is really important in this life. Thank you.
Hi Dr Arora
Good story.
Nice to see you chasing your dream of meaningfulness in your little boat.A rudderless boat might not sink but it might not get you to the shore you want.Great to see you holding your rudder in the direction you want to go to.
May wisdom guide you.
Vikram
A really touching one – reminded me of my childhood days…
Suresh
I can’t wait to share this with my Father. With the recent deaths of my mother and brother, he needs to be reminded just how mportant hi is to me.