7 ways to beat stress before it beats us!
While engrossed in work at home or in office, if we can be anchored in an inner calmness, it greatly helps. This needs developing and training self-awareness.
Sri Paramahansa Yogananda, the author of ‘Autobiography of a Yogi’, aptly describes this balanced state as being “Actively Calm & Calmly Active”.
Some of the tell-tale signs of a rising stress level are:
• Local tensing of muscles,
• Shallow and rapid breathing with some rise in pulse rate,
• Decrease in focus,
• Reduction in happiness level,
• A nagging feeling of moodiness, grumpiness, negativity and hyper-criticism against others or life in general, etc.
Whenever these happen, we can do some of these:
1. Take a break for 5-10 minutes
This is investing time to eventually save time, because you will come back to work smarter with more focus. Take deep breaths (abdominally i.e. diaphragmatically), stretch up, have a glass of water, or fruit juice or hot soup (avoid too much tea/coffee), tense all body muscles in a wave and then relax, etc.
2. Exercise every day
Before coming to office, exercise either intensely (heavy sweating) for 20 minutes, moderately (light sweating) for 30 minutes, or gently (series of light stretches) for 40 minutes. For people who have not had regular workouts, moderately is the best; for those who choose to exercise gently everyday, moderate to intense workout twice a week are desirable, but while we can customize our exercise, regularity is always the key.
3. Enjoy your work
Bring your whole heart to it. To work only for salary is a kind of slavery, we must also work for joy and with creativity. While working, be sincere but not serious. Keep smiling and do your best.
4. Manage your time well and prioritize
When with spouse/kids/parents, give your whole attention to them and while working in office, be focused on work, but have no resistance if you have to switch roles suddenly, say because of a phone call. This living in ‘now’, and acceptance-driven gliding between roles, will create a dynamic work-life balance. Mismanagement of time, work-life imbalance, and stress, feed on each other.
5. Mindful eating
We become what we eat and think, so let us choose carefully. Choosing thoughts takes a long practice; choosing foods also needs some mastery over habits hard-wired into our brains and the slavery to taste buds, but with a healthy self-love and care, it is do-able. Never skip your breakfast. Make your last meal of the day two hours before sleep. Eat fresh fruits, seasonal greens, sprouts, almonds, etc. Don’t drink too much water with/immediately after the meals, but any amount an hour later. Drink plenty of water the first thing in the morning.
6. Tame your ego
We all have ego, it is our body-identified lower self-awareness. One can never be completely free from awareness of the self, but it can evolve from the small ‘I’ which limits our consciousness to ‘me’ and ‘mine’, to the big ‘I’ which includes all. Taming ego smoothens relationships. We don’t need any self-mortification here, no need to give up our assertiveness – we don’t have to become a doormat or a vegetable, but we just need to respect others as we respect ourselves, and appreciate their point of view. Our behavior reflects our attitude; our attitude reflects in turn the centering of our consciousness.
7. Learn & practice yoga
Some pranayama (yogic breathing techniques to manage and balance the prana or life force) followed by meditation, will effectively manage stress like nothing else. Pray before and after meditation, and pray for others also.
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Hans is a chemical engineer who worked in sales/marketing for 28 years. Thereafter, for the last 8 years, he has been a motivational speaker, yoga coach and corporate trainer. In his personal life, he has been practicing yoga-meditation for close to 25 years.
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